One Thrifty Gurl is currently under construction. We are attempting to make this blog more user friendly and to resolve any issues that readers have had. Please bear with us as most of the code is being hand written. Please contact me if there is something you are looking for. I would like to sincerely thank all of my sponsors and followers because without you none of this is possible. Please come back for our grand re-design giveaway! We will have a huge prize valued at over $200! Links in the drop down menu will work in the coming days. However we are currently creating the landing pages. If you are a sponsor and cannot find your review please contact me, some of them were lost in the process so I will need to locate it in my backup files and re-post. We want to make sure that all of our sponsors reviews are being seen. Thank You again to everyone that makes this possible. If you have an item you would like me to review you are welcome to contact me - I will be accepting 5 new reviews each month until the process is done. You can also submit items for my guest bloggers Jacqueline, a seventeen year old fashionista and dancer and my mother, Liz.

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Where I have been! From #Pregnancy to #Birth - My Story.

Good Evening,
To all of my fantastic followers, Thank You. As many of you know the past months have been exceedingly difficult. However it is my desire to make One Thrifty Gurl thrive again. I have watched many blogs over the years that fail when they become to big or when the stop hosting giveaways. This blog has simply stopped being written.  I love entering and winning giveaways - hosting them is a blast so I hope to bring you more of them in the months to come along with a lot of new content and organization. 

I would like to share some uplifting news that I received this week. I would love to say that I discovered that everything is okay medically and I have no problems but instead I bring to you the following:

 My heart has two tiny holes in it, these holes are labeled aneurysms but from what I understand are not super-scary. I will have to have a procedure to close these eventually. However; I can bear more children and as long as my heart remains healthy I can wait 7-10 years to have these holes shut. I can return to work, begin enjoying food again and can go to sleep at night without wondering if I'll get to wake up to my beauty's sweet smile.

I am unsure of what I shared of my pregnancy and birth in the past so I have decided to share with you (in the briefest manner) my incredible journey up until now. 

In December of 2011 I discovered that I was pregnant. No my pregnancy was not planned, it scared the crap out of me and I was not married at the time. However; I was very excited to become a mother, and would never give the opportunity up. 

Throughout my pregnancy I ran into many trials. The first of which is my family medical history: father passed at 38 from unknown disorder, he was adopted so no medical history is known. Due to the nature of his death I got in to see an OB at 5 weeks - the OB seemed to be great and set up the necessary appointments. Pregnancy now labeled as "HIGH RISK". 

I began to go the appointments and kept meeting the same wall - I'll title this wall: ABORTION.  Time and time again I stated it was not an option, the more I heard it - the more I clung to depression. By 8 weeks pregnant I had no providers for any prenatal care and was told due to the nature of my pregnancy I would have to move to find care. (A little note, this was bullying for asking for different providers and is now being fought.)

I kept running into this wall and as I sank lower I lost more and more weight, hoped to meet my child and felt hopeless. They told me I would die and I was effect killing myself - if it were not for the child growing within me I may have given up entirely. 

Eventually I found a doctor that helped me through my pregnancy. He respected my wishes and did not mention abortion or my death as an option. He helped me through varicose veins, blood clots, weight loss, anemia, and fear just to name a few. However; I was still allowing the words from the beginning of my pregnancy to effect me. At 16 weeks I almost miscarried - silently I struggled with this as I clung to hope that my baby would be okay. 

She was, I tried to eat more from that day on, and succeeded some days. By my third trimester I had begun crossing off days on a calendar hoping that I'd make it to the next day. I felt alone, burdened and privileged at the same time. I wish I had enjoyed being part of this miracle more. I knew at each point day, week, month what my baby's chances of survival were and was extremely afraid to be alone. I wanted someone to know in case I expired so the could save my little girl. 

Fear ruled my life for many months and through this experience I discovered my faith. It made me stronger. As the end of my pregnancy approached I stopped walking up stairs or laughing, these things raised my heart rate and I didn't want to risk dying, yet. Sound morbid, yes, this is where my mind was; always. 

On the day that Reagan came into my world I had been preparing both to die and give birth. I had my will, my letters to my husband and child, all the information needed to let them know how I felt for them. I was determined to meet my baby girl and so I blocked out the pain and after about 7 hours in labor, less than 5 at the hospital I pushed out a beautiful baby in 3 pushes. 

No drugs, no death and no disappointment - there was now a beautiful child laying on my stomach screaming. I got to meet her and have had the privilege to watch her grow for many months. My fear did not end at birth and neither did the medical concerns. However; I would not undo any of it. Being a mother is what I was meant to be. Morbidly I still have goals for things I want to do but at least I have been cleared for a time to enjoy the world around me. 

This week a huge weight was lifted from my life and a new one was added. I am not dying tomorrow (Lord willing) and I have an opportunity to help other women and to share my story. To share all of my stories. 

Knowing that I am okay is good news. I have written this post to share how I have changed. I will be revamping my blog, deleting some past posts and I hope to bring you many new things. If you have a story that you would like to tell, send it to me, maybe you cannot write much but you think you can make a difference, I would love to share it for you. Together we can make an impact, I will continue to share my opinions on products and such but would like to tie in some real-life posts.

Thank You for being a follower of One Thrifty Gurl! I may have dropped the ball for a while but there were other things going on.A recent pic of me and my baby. She is eating an orange.

Friday, May 3, 2013

#Aveeno Positvely Radiant #Review - Be #RadiantWithAVEENO

As many of you know I am an Influenster, my latest program has allowed me to test the new Positevely Radiant Collection for free. I received the Intensive Night Cream in the mail recently! 
Aveeno is best known for its natural health approach to beauty. This product has a Total Soy Complex and B3 vitamins that aids in getting radiant-looking skin with an even skin tone. Its goal is to obtain the 5 factors of radiance: it improves tone, dullness, brown spots, texture and blotchiness.

My kit also came with a night mask, since I have an 8 month old using this has proven impossible. My little one rips it off to see what it is. However using the cream has proven beneficial. 

My skin feels smoother and is brighter in the mornings. Instead of feeling sticky and appearing gray. I really enjoy feeling normal again. One thing I love is the very soft fragrance and non-oily application. Most evening or even day creams leave a sort of film on you skin, this one leaves your skin feeling soft and plump. I love using it right before bed because of this. I also feel a bit of a tingle when I first use it due to the softening of my skin. 

Are you looking for a bit of radiance in your life? Check out this new line from Aveeno and you are sure to find it! 

I rate this product a 4.5/5 - I have used it for less than two weeks so if any changes in my review occur I will keep you up to date. This is a high-quality product with a light scent that delivers excellent results. It has my stamp of approval. 

This product was provided by Influenster, my opinions are based on my personal experience. I only recommend products that I myself use. Thanks for reading!